What Makes Us Ugly?

What Makes Us Ugly?

I was distracted by some matter about life sometimes, and that brought me to leave a question at Youthsays.com. I was asking the same question as in my title. It says, “What makes us ugly?” Well, not many feedbacks that I got, but at least I think I can make a conclusion there...

Why is it about physical appearances that judge to seize ‘how ugly’ that someone is..? Why is the behavior or attitudes is being blame by any consequences that we took? What does REALLY makes us ugly?

Well, back to my childhood era, I was always thinking that its behavior that makes us ugly, and at certain situations I always comparing things to judge for the better, the prettier and the ugliest. But, that was it then… Now I guess it’s changed. I mean my view and my thought has changed. Everything  is probably because of life experiences that I’ve been through; and feelings that I'd undergo. However, feedbacks that I received are a total ‘kinda like my thought at 8 to 12years old!’ What's that!!??

Nope, don’t get me wrong. Those are their views and I respect that. Only that; it makes me wondering either if it is just me that having a bad lifetime of all? Or they just can’t think better? (Sorry, not trying to offend the others but… perhaps it’s just me~).

Below are some of answers that I received:
QUESTION: What Makes Us Ugly?

Answer 1: Ugly Face + Bad Behavior = The Ugliest! -AND- Pretty face + Bad Behavior = Ugly! [Explicit reason]
(My comments: You can’t just judge any person by their looks or behavior! Because you’re not perfect too! No one does! But perhaps those are the reasons that makes you see them UGLY, yet it didn’t affect ‘em. ...still they might think that they're the best~ So that absolutely didn’t really makes ‘em ugly~)

Answer 2: Foods and Genetic [Implicit Reason]
“Foods are nutrients to our body; yet it is a chemical to deal with... And genetics is the other factor that shapes our body.”
(My comments: Interesting…and I didn’t think that from that way~)

Answer 3: The Heart (means the inner-self ...probably~?) [Implicit Reason]
“The hidden intentions are sometimes can be unspeakable and invisible; so it tend to lead a person to either the good or bad intentions/thought.”
(My Comments: Interesting! Almost get the shot! )

Answer 4: The Behavior [Explicit Reason]
“We should judge a person by their behavior NOT by their features. BECAUSE behavior shows the person you really are?”
(My Comments: Behavior = Attitude that contribute to one’s character/personality. Human are just being “HUMAN” AND as a human, we tend to do, act or behave to both good and evil things. …and there is a stage where humans reach their maturity-minded on which manners to keep or to avoid. That does create a personality. …but does the behavior that makes people ugly? )

…and my own answer to my own question is:
Bad memories or experiences …makes us look ugly~ feel uglier~ and being ugliest~ (The feelings). It is more to things that you do or done from your past that regrets you for the rest of your life. Even though that you tried to move on, the scars never go as it reminded as one of your very unforgettable moments that keep flashing for a certain moments.. No matter how hard you’ve claimed to recover from it; you’ll never be the same again... THAT’S makes YOU ugly! That’s make us... UGLY!

…Well, if it is not at you, it is happen to me. If it’s not for u …I’d felt it that way. And every times that I receive any compliments, saying that …I’m pretty, beautiful, or alike~ I’ll hurt! Even if they don’t mean it or mentioning it as jokes; I’ll hurt! And I was thinking that, “...If that I'm so beautiful, pretty, lucky or whatever it is, WHY do I feel soOooo... much UGLY!!? If it is so true, then WHY do I experience this life!!?? …Being UGLY!!? ...And there are MORE than a few people that HATE me! HATES ME!!!! Hates me for who I am!!! Well it’s true! Look at those girls at my previous-job-places; THOSE PREPS is picking me! Look back at my childhood; THEY’VE IGNORED ME!!! Everyone have a clique back to my childhood; still they have each other by now! Everyone’s have best friends; but me! I’m a freak!! Some stupid preps back to school-era scared of me because of I’m being different! They think that I’m a lesbian, UGLY and mean! So they treats me different! There is always a gap between me and the other friends… At 7; I experienced this SHIT!!!! At 7; I exposed to the ignorance! ...and it continuous to a few years after that... STILL, I CAN’T FORGET!!!

Anyway, no matter how good or bad you’ve behaved and treat your friends from the past; even if it’s never being brought up, it always leaves memories. As the memories remain; it will develop stronger and stronger within your life …till you can tell that its humiliations and hatred that grows within...

-Medusa-